affirmation jewelry

I guess I'm looking for a little affirmation...
She's 18 and in High School. She also is very interested in a music. We've been dating for a little over two months...
http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches /Sterling-Silver-Music-Notes-Bracelet/82 5040/product.html

-I'm kinda worried that it might look a little cheap or tacky, so i'm a bit nervous. What are your opinions? Should I give it to her or will she think its ugly and be something that she never wears?

-is a 7.5 inch chain big enough for the average teenage girl or is that too big/small?
Thanks!

I can't answer the question of the length being the right size. Does she read sheet music? If so, I think it would be very cute! BUT!!!! If she does read sheet music and/or play an instrument, you should ask her , "What clef do you play most of your music in?" For example, if she plays alto saxophone, Treble Clef (the one on the bracelet) is great. However, if she plays viola, it's a different clef. I think it's alto clef, and it look different than the Treble clef. It would show that you really are thinking about her if you get the correct clef for what she plays.

If she does NOT read music, then it's probably fine.

The OTHER thing I would ask her is "Do you wear gold or silver or do you have a preference?" The reason is that I only wear gold, and my mom only wears silver...well, actually white gold. The reason is that even 24K-plated gold will cause me to have a skin reaction. My mom and I (and many people) are allergic to nickel, which is common in jewelry. For example, I can only wear 14karat gold or higher in my pierced ears OR surgical steel in my pierced ears.

The other reason for the gold/silver question is that I think that silver looks bad on my skin complexion. My mom agrees. And she feels that gold looks bad on her skin complexion.

*********HOWEVER******** The bottom line is that it is very sweet for you to get her something. My mom told me a long time ago that when a man presents you with jewelry, the ONLY appropriate response is, "it's beautiful!" She was specifically discussing engagement rings, which this is obviously not...so ...good luck.

I rarely buy jewelry for people only bc I think it's a very personal choice. Or maybe it's bc I'm soooo picky about jewelry.???

But...like I said, the bottom line is that you know this young lady better than I do. Sterling silver (if she wears silver) sounds like a good choice, and it's a very cute bracelet, and when she wears it to school, it can make her feel very special...it's like receiving a boquet of roses at work, but it lasts for much longer!

my last note: I do not know what rafted means in this sentence: "Bracelet rafted entirely in sterling silver" I've never heard of it. If it means "covered" or "plated", I would look for something else. But again, that's just me, and I'm very picky about jewelry.

But when a young man gave me a cute bracelet when I was in 8th grade, I was "totally floored" (that's a good thing).

Good luck, you romantic guy!

2008-12-21 14:18:45 by Jj M

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FIVE PILLARS OF ISLAM
Islam has five pillars or basic foundations to act. Acting correctly and sincerely on these foundations will transform a Muslim's life into the line of the Creator. Faithful practice of these duties inspires him to work towards the establishment of justice, equality and righteousness in society, and the eradication of injustice, falsehood and evil.

1. SHAHADAH, the first of the five basic foundations, is the declaration, knowingly and voluntarily, of: La ilaha illal lahu Muhammadur rasulullah MEANS "There is no god except Allah, Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah" This declaration contains the two basic concepts of Tawhid and Risalah. This is the basis of all actions in Islam, and the four other basic duties follow this affirmation.

2. SALAH (compulsory prayer) is offered five times a day. It is a practical demonstration of faith, and keeps a believer in constant touch with his Creator. The benefits of Salah are far reaching, long lasting and immeasurable. It develops in a believer the qualities of self-discipline, steadfastness and obedience to the Truth, leading him to be patient, honest and truthful in the affairs of his life. The five daily prayers are:

FAJR between dawn and sunrise

ZUHR between midday and mid-afternoon

ASR between mid-afternoon and sunset

MAGHRIB immediately after sunset

ISHA between nightfall and dawn

3. ZAKAH (welfare contribution) is a compulsory payment from a Muslim's annual savings. It is an annual payment of around 2.5% on the value of cash, jewelry and precious metals; a separate rate applies to animals, crops and mineral wealth. Zakah can only be spent on helping the poor, needy, the disabled, the oppressed, debtors and other purposes as defined by the Qur'an. Zakah is one of the fundamental principles of Islamic economy, which insures an equitable society where everyone has a right to contribute and share.

4. SAWM ( fasting ) is the annual obligatory fasting during the month of Ramadan - the ninth month of Islamic calendar. A Muslim, every day of this month, refrains from eating, drinking, smoking, and sex, from dawn to sunset. Sawm (fast) develops a believer's moral and spiritual standard and keeps him away from selfishness, greed, extravagance and other vices. Sawm (fast) is an annual training program which increases a Muslim's determination to fulfill his obligation to the Almighty Lord.

5. HAJJ ( pilgrimage to the House of Allah ) is an annual event, obligatory on those Muslims who can afford to undertake it, at least once in their lifetime. It is a journey to the House of Allah (Al-Ka'bah) in Makkah, Saudi Arabia, in the month of Dhul Hijjah - the twelfth month of the Islamic calendar. Hajj symbolizes the unity of mankind; Muslims from every race and nationality assemble together in equality and humanity to worship their Lord. The pilgrim, in the ritual clothing of Ihram, has the unique feelings of being in the presence of his Lord.

THE QUR'ÂN
The Qur'ân is the final Book of guidance from Allah, sent down to Prophet Muhammad (SAW) through the angel Gabriel (Jibra'il) (AS). Every word of the Qur'an is the word of Allah. It was revealed in a period of 23 years in the Arabic language. Muslims learn to read it in Arabic and many memorize it completely. Muslims are expected to try their best to understand the Qur'an and practice its teachings. The Qur'an is unrivaled in its recording and preservation. The astonishing fact about this book is that it has remained unchanged even to a letter for over fourteen hundred years. The Qur'an deals with man and his ultimate goal in life. Its teachings cover all aspects of his life and the life after death.

THE HADITH
The Hadith is the collection of sayings, actions and silent approvals of Prophet Muhammad (SAW). It explains the Qur'an, and how to practice it. The Hadith were recorded meticulously by the Prophet's companions. Six particular collections have become prominent and are regarded as the most Authentic: Bukhari, Muslim, Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud, Nasa'i and Ibni-Majah.

PROPHET MUHAMMAD (SAW)
Muhammad (SAW), the final messenger of Allah and the best of creation, was born in Makkah, Arabia, in the year 571 CE. His father, Abdullah, died before his birth and his mother, Aminah, died when he was only six. Later on he was looked after by his uncle Abu Talib. He married Khadijah, a noble lady of Makkah, when he was twenty five. He first received revelation from Allah at the age of forty, marking the beginning of his work as the messenger of Allah. The people of Makkah at that time used to worship idols. The prophet (SAW) invited them to Islam. Some of them responded favorably and became Muslims, while others rebuked him and turned against him. He continued to preach the message of Allah and, gradually, the number of his followers increased. In the thirteenth year of his Prophethood, in 622 CE, Muhammad (SAW) migrated from Makkah to Madînah. The people of Madînah a

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